
Post-Adoption Resources
Attachment
Signs of Healthy Attachment
Empowered to Connect
Adoptive Families Magazine
Top 10 Tips for the First Year
Tips When Child Attaches To Only One Parent
Are We Trying To Fit Square Pegs Into Round Holes?
Twenty-five Ways to Nurture Hurt Children
Confessions of a Mom with Attachment Disorder – struggling to bond with your adopted child
Be sure to check out all of Lisa Qualls’ posts on Attachment and Trauma here
Claiming
A Commitment to Claim
Parental Claiming of an Older Child
Barriers to Claiming an Older Child
Realistic Expectations
Letting Go of Adoption Expectations
Behaviors
Is It Adoption Related or Not?
Hoarding, Overeating & Food Obsessions
Effective Time-Ins
Helping a Child with Sexualized Behaviors
How Do I Handle Lying?
Responding to Aggressive and Violent Behavior
How Do I Handle Manipulation and Control?
Why Won’t My Child Act His Age?
Sensory Processing Issues
10 Sensory Red Flags You Might Be Missing
Kids Who Feel Too Much
15 Sensory Activities for Kids
Are We Dealing With Sensory Issues?
Transracial Issues
What ‘Black Lives Matter’ Means to a White Mom
Empowering Adopted Children of Color in the Face of Racism
Justice
The Risk of Transracial Adoption?
When It’s Just HARD
Language
Amharic-English Dictionary
Oromo-English Dictionary
Older Child Adoption
Fasten Your Sweet Belt A book and blog written by a mother and her adopted daughter, with topics like eating, bonding, overcoming, believing…
Older Child Adoption: A Psychologist’s Story of Love and Attachment
Adopting an Older Child
Initial Adjustment of School-aged Children to a New Family
International Adoption (General)
Natural Hair Rules Hair care, styling and hair product recommendations.
Kurly T-spot  A beginner shares her tips for African toddler hair styling and care.
Chocolate Hair/Vanilla Care  Natural hair care, transracial adoption and everything in between.
Recommended Reading
ATTACHMENT/BONDING
The Connected Child
by Dr. Karyn Purvis, David Cross & Wendy Sunshine (Study guide available for download at: Empowered to Connect )
The Connection – Where Hearts Meet
by Dr. Karyn Purvis
Interactive bible study designed to help you build a loving, lasting connection with your child.
When Love is Not Enough – A Guide to Parenting Children with RAD – Reactive Attachment Disorder
by Nancy L. ThomasÂ
How We Love Our Kids – The 5 Love Styles of Parenting
by Milan & Kay Yerkovich
Shows parents how to overcome the predictable challenges that arise out of the five love styles and helps parents cultivate a secure, deep connection with a child of any age. Retool your reactions and refocus on how you love.
ORPHAN/ADOPTION MINISTRY
Fields of the Fatherless by C. Thomas Davis  Â
CULTURAL/TRANSRACIAL ISSUES
Inside Transracial Adoption by Gail Steinberg and Beth Hall  Â
GRIEF & LOSS
The Connected Child by Dr. Karyn PurvisÂ
Parenting The Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow by Gregory Keck and Regina Kupecky
Real Parents, Real Children: Parenting The Adopted Child by Holly van Gulden and Lisa M. Bartels-Rabb
Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss by Claudia Jewett Jarratt
Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience After Neglect and Trauma by Deborah D. Gray
SPECIAL NEEDS/HIV+ADOPTION
Children Affected by HIV/AIDS: Compassionate Care by Phyllis KilbournÂ
Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special Need Kids by Gregory Keck & Regina Kupecky
TRANSRACIAL ISSUES
Inside Transracial Adoption by Gail Steinberg and Beth Hall Â
BABY/TODDLER ADOPTION
Toddler Adoption: The Weaver’s Craft by Mary Hopkins Best Â
OLDER CHILD ADOPTION
Parenting Adopted Adolescents by Gregory Keck
Parenting Your Adopted Older Child by Brenda McCreight, PhD Â
LANGUAGE
Simple Amharic for Adoptive Families  by Amy Kendall
GENERAL ADOPTIVE PARENTING
Trust-Based Parenting (dvd) by TCU Institute of Child Development
Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child by Patty Cogen
Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
After the Dream Comes True   by Michelle Gardner
The Post-Adoption Blues – Overcoming the Unforeseen Challenges of Adoption  by Foli and Thompson
The Whole Life Adoption Book – Realistic Advice for Building a Healthy Adoptive Family by Jayne Schooler
Handbook on Thriving as an Adoptive Family by David & Renee SanfordÂ
CHILDREN’S BOOKS
One-Hundred-and-One African-American Read-Aloud Stories
Dream Big, Little One
The Snowy Day
Young Gifted and Black: Meet 52 Black Heroes from Past and Present
Elmer
The Skin You Live In
The Bridge That Love Built by Bratcher and Dean
You Belong Here by M.H. Clark
God Found Us You by Lisa Bergren
Shaoey and Dot by Mary Beth and Steven Curtis Chapman
Chosen by Love by Tom Jaski
Miracle in the Land of Wu by Buffi A Young
A Mother for Choco by Keiko Kasza
Mommy’s Heart Went POP!  by Christina Kyllonen and Peter Greer
Happy Adoption Day by John McCutcheon (for ages 2-6)
E is for Ethiopia by Lori Prodan and Keith Holmes
I Love You Through and Through by Bernadette Rossetti-ShustakÂ
I Wished for You – An Adoption Story by Marianne Richmond
All About Adoption by Marc Nemiroff (for ages 4-12)Â
Horace by Holly Keller (for ages 2-8)Â
The Mulberry Bird by Anne Braff Brodzinsky (for ages 4-12)
He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands by Kadir Nelson
Whose Toes Are Those? by Jabari Asim
FOR SIBLINGS OF ADOPTED KIDSÂ (ages 3-10)
The New Barker in the House by Tomie dePaola
Is That Your Sister? A True Story of Adoption by Catherine BuninÂ
Waiting for May by Janet Stoeke
Seeds of Love – For Brothers and Sisters of International Adoption by Mary PetertylÂ
Things Little Kids Need to Know by Susan Uhlig
A Sister for Matthew by Pamela Kennedy
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PO Box 731783
Puyallup WA 98373
844-330-3990
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